T A K D A
(A Short Story in Filipino)

SYNOPSIS
Magkasalungat ang paniniwala namin ni Alfred tungkol sa tadhana. Hindi niya kaylanman sinangayunan ang paliwanag ko na ang tao ang gumagawa ng sarili niyang tadhana’t kapalaran. Ang kalahatan ng mga desisyong ginagawa ng isang tao sa buhay ay magdidikta sa kanyang kakahinatnan at s’ya ring huhubog sa kanyang kinbukasan. Tuwing sasabihin ko iyon ay kukuwestyonin ng aking kapatid ang pagiging Kristyano ko. Bakit hindi daw ako naniniwala na bago pa man isilang ang tao ay may kapalarang nakaguhit na sa kanyang palad. Naniniwala ang kapatid ko na ang Panginoong Diyos ang nagtatakda nito. Para sa kanya, nang ang tao’y isilang sinimulang pagulungin ng Lumikha ang gulong ng kanyang kapalaran. Hindi raw kayang pigilin ng tao ang pagikot ng gulong ng kanyang palad, minsa’y papaibabaw siya’t minsan nama’y papailalim.
At nangyari ang isang trahedya sa kanyang pamilya…
Sa pagkakataong iyon ay puwedeng sabihin ni Alfred na tila natumbok sya’t nagulungan ng gulong ng kanyang kapalaran. Tila hindi maganda ang nakaguhit na tadhana sa kanyang palad. Ang babaeng sinasamba’t pinakamamahal n’ya ay binawi nang nagpahiram ng buhay sa isang napakasakit na paraan.
Sa gitna ng matinding pagdadalamhati ni Alfred ay tinanong n’ya ang isang katanungang magpahanggang ngayon ay walang makasagot, “Bakit nangyari ito?”
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“ACCENTGOISM” (Playing With Words)
How do I love thee oh Elizabeth Browning’s language?
Let me NOT COUNT the ways…
Let me JUST COIN a word…
ACCENTGOISM
Yes folks… that’s the word… ACCENTGOISM /ˈakˌsentˌgōˌizəm/
Etymology: From the words accent and egoistic
(Of course you know the meaning of the words aforementioned. If not, consult “Merriam-Webster.”)
The word was coined by…well…by me!
The word I minted out of the inspiration I derived from my exasperation over some realities I have encountered in the world of ESL teaching.
Stress: I don’t like you folks to be so stressed on wondering where to put the stress so let me stress that the stress is on the first sylabble.
Part of Speech Label: Of course the word is a noun. Adjective form: accentgoistic
Do you want to make it an adverb? Then add the suffix -ly. Now it becomes accentgoisticly. Better yet make it accentgoistically.
Pronunciation Guide: You know how to read the words accent (ˈakˌsent) and egoism(ˈēgōˌizəm). Combine the sounds from the two words. You’ve got to eliminate though the ē sound from ˈēgōˌizəm. It’s up to you folks if you wish to mimic the way the Americans or the British say those words. Well, you are also free to produce those sounds the way our brethren from downunder do it. Or be real… blurt it out the way your respective frenula would allow it.
Point of Clarification: The frenulum I am referring to above is the frenulum linguae in the mouth, not the frenelum veli in the brain and the frenulum valvae ileocaecalis in the digestive tracts. Not even the ones that teachers of anatomy would discuss when presenting the reproductive systems of both male and female. What is it? Do you want to know? Google it baby!
Related Terms/Synonyms: Linguistic Racism, Linguistic Egocentrism, Monopoly of Language
(Honestly, at the moment I was “playing with the word, ” I was not sure if those terms (in the line immediately above this sentence) were already existing in any form of literature.)
Definitions:
Do I still need to define? Can’t you just refer to the contextual clues provided in the “Related Terms/Synonyms” section?
But if you insist then read on…
1. The tendency of SOME English-speaking people, who, because of their “distinct accent” think that they have monopoly of the language.
2. The tendency of SOME English teachers to think that only accent constitute good teaching in English.
3. The idea that only those people with distinct and natural accent are qualified to teach English.
4. The idea that those people who were born and grew up in the native English speakers’ zone are better ESL teachers than those who speak English only as a second language.
5. The tendency of SOME English-speaking people that those who could not speak and write well in English are dumb and ignorant.
There goes “my play with words.”
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Dissect the conversation below:
Me: Do you believe that it is the accent in your country that the world must follow?
A friend (a native English speaker): Yes, because we are the most economically powerful country. We set standards in many things, including the way the English language should be uttered.
Me: Oh…China might become the most economically powerful country sooner or later. So, I need to start training myself to speak English the way the Chinese do.
That same native speaker: But they don’t own the language!
Me: Why? Is there anybody who owns the English language?
Him again: Man…you’re ridiculous.
Me: Am I?
SA PILING NG MGA HAYOP

Iba’t-ibang tao, iba’t-iba ang ugali. May ugaling maganda, at syempre may pangit din. Sa madaling salita, may mga taong asal HAYOP at sila’y nakaksalamuha natin araw-araw.
Kung may mapagbigay ay meron ding madamot. May masipag at meron din naman nuknukan ng tamad. May mga taong mabuti na ayaw gumawa ng ano mang bagay na nakakasakit sa kapwa-tao at meron namang ang makapanakit ang hanap. May mga taong ang nais ay tumulong, ang mai-angat ang moral at dignidad ng kapwa nila. Sa kabilang banda, may mga taong mapanira at mapanakit na ang nais ay masira ang buhay ng mga taong kinaiinisan o dili kaya’y kina-iinggitan nila. May mga taong ang bisyo ay hanapin ang kapintasan ng iba upang ito’y pag-usapan at pagtawanan. May mga taong mapagsamantala sa kahinaan ng iba.
Saan ka… saan ako… saan tayo nabibilang na uri ng tao? Mabuti o masama? Totoo o mapagkunwari? Anong ugali tayo meron? Tao ba tayong asal-hayop? Tayo ba’y banal o nagbabanalbanalan? Bulayi’t pag-isipan natin.
Ganyan ang mga kaybigan natin at mga mahal sa buhay…hindi perpekto. Maging ang mga kapit-bahay natin, ang mga kasamahan sa trabaho at mga taong nasasalubong natin sa daan. Hindi rin sila perpekto.
Minsan tumatahimik na lamang tayo kung may mga hindi magandang ugali tayong nakikita. Meron naman lumalayo na lamang upang walang maging problema.
Kapag nagpakita ang isa tao ng kagaspangan ng ugali wala rin akong sinasabi, pero may sinusulat ako…mga satirikong tula.
Ang mga satirikong tula kong nandito ay ang pagpuna ko sa ibang-ibang ugali na nakikita ko sa mga tao na nakakasalamuha ko sa paligid, sa pamayanan na kinabibiliangan ko at sa trabaho.
Ang Buwitre sa Kumbento
Ang Huklubang Ipis
Ang Loro
Ang Mga Buwaya
Ang Mga Hayop sa Manggahan
Ang Mga Hungyano
Ang Mga Unggoy, Ahas at Talangka
Ang Palatawang Tarantula
Ang Banal Na Tupa
Kakaibang Mga Hayop
Mga Talangka sa Banga ng Kimchi
Pintaserong Butanding
Source: SA PILING NG MGA HAYOP
Kangkarot
P
ara kang kangkarot
Hay naku sobrang harot
Kapag katawan mo’y inindayog
Hininga ko’y malalagot
Ngiti mo’y parang pagkit
Sa diwa ko nakadikit
Titig mong anong lagkit
Puso ko’y pinipitik
Nang matikman iyong halik
Tuhod ko ay nanginig
Halik mong sobrang tamis
Hanap-hanap bawat saglit
Bisig mo kasi parang sapot
Sa kaluluwa ko nakapulupot
Kandungan mo sa akin ang dulot
Ligayang di malilimot
Panibugho’y sobrang ramdam
Kapag ikaw ay nilalapitan
Lintek na mga asungot at aswang
Agawin ka’y di papayagan
Huwag na huwag kang aalis
Dibdib ko’y magsisikip
Kapag sa piling mo nawaglit
Mamatay sa hapis
Halika ka na sa silid
Pintuan ay ipinid
Ikukulong kita sa aking bisig
Sa ulap kita ihahatid
Paskong OFW

Walang simbahang dito’y mapupuntahan
Upang misa de gallo ay maipagdiwang
Sa bibingka’t puto-bumbong natatakam
Salabat na mainit walang makuhanan
Hanap-hanap ko ang mga batang paslit
Na tuwing gabi sa Disyembre’y nangungulit
Sintunado man kung sila ay umawit
Himig nilang pamasko’y nais madinig
Hinahanap ko’y parol na maliwanag
Walang matanaw makulay na Christmas lights
Wala ring Christmas trees na kumukutitap
Ganito ang pasko sa ibayong dagat
Ngunit ‘di bale nang wala iyong lahat
Kung ngayong pasko kita ay mayayakap
Ihain ma’y bibingka lang at salabat
Basta’t kapiling ka’t kamay mo’y aking hawak
Pagkaing masarap maghahanda pa ba
Kung sa noche buena ako’y mag-iisa
Aking christmas lights ‘di na sisindihan pa
Nang dibdib ‘di madurog sa pangungulila
A Championship Too Hard To Forget
How do I love the game of basketball? Let me the count the ways.
I love it to the point that I can’t recall a day when I didn’t open NBA.com, PBA (Philippine Basketball Association), and other websites related to basketball in order to watch games, keep track of the standings of my favorite teams and the performance of my favorite players. I also follow college basketball both in the US and in my country.
What about this – I’m into fantasy basketball. I used to manage a team in Yahoo Fantasy Basketball.
I also enjoy playing hoops and coaching/training a basketball team. I don’t have very fond memories as a basketball player though. I have always been a benchwarmer who would be called to play only when somebody needs to rest for a minute or two or when my team needs to send to the foul line a poor free throw shooter from the opposing team.
However, my being a basketball coach-trainer is a different story – a colorful one.
Aside from teaching and writing, another thing that I do passionately is coaching a basketball team. I have coached basketball teams for school and inter-school competitions. I was also once a manager and coach of a basketball team in the barrio (a geographical unit smaller than a town ) where I am residing in the Philippines.
Some of the teams I coached reached championship rounds. There were times we ended up as runner-ups but of course there were times also that we emerged as champions.
What I consider as the most memorable of all the basketball championships in my collection is the one my team won during a sportsfest (in the college where I worked) 16 years ago. That time I coached students taking the course Hotel and Restaurant Management (HRM).
It was a championship so hard to forget because it was too good to be true.
It was indeed an epic struggle!
I actually wrote an article about that championship run. It was published in the publication of that school. I decided to reprint the said article which I entitled “No Championship Could Be Sweeter.”
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Neither to brag about nor to magnify the championship in men’s basketball which the BLUE team collared during the Sportsfest 2000 inspired me to write about it. No need to brag for bragging is a moronic attitude. No need to magnify it either for winning the basketball men crown in the fashion the HRM team did it was in itself huge that need not be magnified. Writing about it is simply my way of giving tribute to the players who immortalized themselves in the memory of those who watched (as well as those who heard) how they bravely persevered in winning three (3) games in a span of 6 hours en route to winning the title.
(August 23, 2000)
The BLUE team was undoubtedly laden with talent making them one of the pre-tournament favorites. The team had 2 good point guards, a shooting guard/forward capable of shooting the lights out from beyond the arch, a lanky dependable center, and a formidable go-to guy who can play point-forward. Predictions had it that they will vie for the championship.
But predictions can go either way – right or wrong.
The BLUE team’s lofty billing (and their morale) were sent crashing back to earth when the BLACK team (Com Sci – Oct), the defending champion seeking to “three-peat” and composed mainly of the members of the school’s basketball varsity, dealt them an ego-bruising trashing.
All the hype about the BLUE team were gone. Just that and they were no longer regarded as title contenders. Suddenly, the BLACK team had no more competition to being the darling of the tournament and the sole favorite to win the crown.
While the BLACKS developed a cloak of invincibility, the BLUES, with their defeat right on their first gamet, began to doubt their capabilities.
(August 24, 2000)
Such a doubt in themselves became very apparent when in their second game on the second day of the tournament, despite the fact that they had a relatively light assignment (against the GRAY team), they held only a 2-point lead at the half.
Before that game, I talked to the players, pointed out the mistakes which led to their eventual defeat to the BLACKS on their first game and asked them to avoid committing the same. We were literally on a cliff’s edge for the tournament format provides that 2 losses would boot a team out of the competition.
Somehow they responded. They made a conscious effort to avoid their loopholes in game 1 but the problem during the first half of game 2 was their lack of enthusiasm. They played a lackluster brand of basketball which was giving their opponents confidence. So, during the huddle when the second half was about to start, I started cursing and swearing and even called my key players names. I told them that they would become a shameful bunch of idiots should they lose the game.
Cursing and swearing and calling my players names come dead last in my repertoire of motivational methods. I was forced to use them for it was my intention to offend them, make them angry, and push them to prove to all and sundry that they are not imbecilic basketeers.
It worked!
For the first few minutes of the second half my players played like men possessed in both ends of the floor. While they scored an avalanche of points their counterparts struggled and had to bleed for theirs. At the end, the BLUES emerged victorious with plenty to spare.
(August 25, 2000)
The third game was very meaningful and integral. Not because we won over a formidable opponent (the GREEN team); not because I finally discovered the team’s best offensive and defensive combinations; and not because the players got their confidence back burying in oblivion the ghosts of game 1. It was meaningful and integral for what one of my players did (not in the playing court but before the start of the game). When I granted him permission to talk he reminded me about one missing ingredient to make the team stronger – PRAYERS. He asked if we could pray before the game. He put me in an awkward position because I’ve never done that. Yes I believe in God and I pray but I do it privately. I don’t know if it was his way of telling me that instead of cursing and swearing to motivate the players why not try praying to God instead. Praying before playing wouldn’t do the team any harm. So, from then on, we would always have a short prayer in one corner of the tournament venue before entering the playing court.
For our second win, we claimed the scalps of the GREENS and faced the tall order of defeating the WHITES for the right to square off against the BLACKS (who enjoyed a twice-to-beat advantage) for the championship.
That night was almost a sleepless one for me. I pondered about the bleak prospects that await my team the following day. We had to beat the WHITES once the BLACKS twice so we could hoist the championship hardware.
Winning three games in a row was a tall order. Honestly, I doubted our chances. Defeating the equally-determined WHITES in the do-or-die game and the seemingly invincible BLACKS twice all in the same day was “mission impossible.” I believed it was probable for us to win the first two games. But when the third game comes, it would take super-human efforts from my players to win.
(August 26, 2000)
I was so disappointed upon seeing that morning that of my 14 players only 7 showed. To make matters worse, one of my two good point guards, was one of those who did not come. I used to play both my point guards together during the 1st 5 minutes of the game and one of them not showing up affected my rotation. But we were at the point of no return.
I told the players to employ a half-court offense in every possession unless there’s a clear fastbreak opportunity. Not that they can’t run but with only 7 players, and with the possibility of playing a total of three games that day, they needed to conserve energy.
Though I predicted a win for us, the WHITES we knew were tough nuts to crack. We watched the previous day how they gave the BLACKS a scare before losing by just two points. But as it turned out, my players were tougher. Despite playing with only 7 men in the rotation, the BLUES won and primed themselves for the daunting task of defeating the BLACK team twice for the crown.
Our team was given by the tournament officials just half an hour to rest before we began with the championship game. We prayed, as usual, before entering the playing court. Then one more of my players came, not the good point guard, but an additional pair of fresh legs just the same that somehow deepened a bit our rotation.
While the BLACKS were busy with their pre-game rituals, I asked my players to just shoot free throws and catch-and-shoot from the 3-point line to conserve their energy.
I reminded the players that they were up against the defending champion with most of the members playing together for the past three years and that they were trying to nail another championship to complete a “three-peat.” I told the BLUES that only them are capable of spoiling the BLACK’s impending victory party. The following were my words for them before the opening tip-off… “You have nothing to lose but everything to gain. We’ve gone this far. Let’s go a bit further.”
Once more I asked them to use the game plan we employed against the WHITES earlier that day.
When the final buzzer for that game sounded, the BLUES raised their hands in triumph.
By winning against their first-game tormentors, the blue team effectively exorcised the ghosts of that defeat shattering at the same time the BLACKS’ cloak of invincibility. That was the first time in three years that that team suffered a defeat. At that time both the BLUES and the BLACKS knew that the latter can be defeated.
The winner-take-all match was scheduled to be played at 1:00 PM giving both teams just one hour to rest. My players had a light meal and I bought for them energy drinks (Lipovitan). Then, we again prayed… harder… for we all knew that it would take a miracle and a miraculous performance from them to win a third straight game (twice) against the BLACKS who had more players and fresher legs.
My players were very tired having played twice in the morning that day. Fatigue was one of the two formidable opponents they needed to contend with that afternoon the second one being the strong and determined team BLACK aching to avenge their defeat and continue their winning tradition.
However, neither fatigue nor the strong determination of their opponents could prevent the BLUE team from realizing their victorious date with destiny.
The BLUES vanquished the BLACKS, crowned themselves the school’s Sportsfest 2000 Basketball-Men champions and handed me my first (and sweetest) championship as a coach.
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Thank you Niño, Hector, Ramon, Irish, Edward, Ruel, Rommel, Rowell, Arnold, Jaysan, Francis, Ivan, Angelo, Audie, and Sir Jyx. But remember…it was GOD who made it possible for us.
LAMIG

Lamig na sa katauhan ko’y lumukob
Di kayang itaboy ng balabal at kumot
Di rin malusaw ng kapeng hinihigop
Kaylangan ko’y yakap mo oh aking irog
Sa kalungkutan ako ay nanginginig
Malayo ka kasi’t ngayon ay tag-lamig
Kapag ako’y nakita kagyat lumapit
Kandungan ako’t ikulong sa ‘yong bisig
Pasikatin ang ngiti mo’t nyebe ay tunawin
Lungkot ko’t inip sa tawa mo’y basagin
Tabihan ako’t hagkan mo at yakapin
Pamamanglaw sa iyo’y tuluyang lusawin
Halika giliw kamay ko na’y abutin
Sa mahigpit mong yakap lamig ay durugin
Nanlamig na puso’y muling pag-alabin
Namamanglaw na gabi’y ating pag-initin

