Monthly Archives: August 2017

BILBILingly Yours

Fat kid
Pilit pumupulupot sa aking baywang
Habang buhay yata akong didikitan
Kahit anong gawin ayaw akong iwan

O BILBIL pakiusap ako’y tantanan

Di nga ba’t tayong dalawa’y nagsumpaan
Na magpakaylanman ay walang iwanan
Sa kabilang buhay man ika’y susundan
Akong BILBIL mo’y h’wag nang ipagtabuyan

Mahirap man ay dapat ko nang aminin
Masakit man ay dapat ko nang tangapin
Sinikap ko ngunit ano man ang gawin
Ikaw oh BILBIL ‘di na kayang tanggalin

BILBIL pangako ko’y iyong panghawakan
Tanggap kita’t ‘di na ipagtatabuyan
Nangangakong kita’y pangangalagaan
Katakawang taglay ko’y ‘di na pipigilan

Pangako mong iyan ‘di ko lilimutin
Si DIET sana ay h’wag mo nang isipin
Kung tawagin kang CHUBBY  iyong dedmahin
Ipagmalaking ikaw ay tabatsingtsing

Pang-101 Tula Para Kay Stella

Tula 4

Taludturan ay muli kong lalakbayin
Pintig ng puso’y pagtutugma-tugmain
Talinhaga nito pilit mong talusin
Sa kanyang kariktan sarili’y lunurin

Mga saknong sa tayutay hahabiin
Maraming pagwawangis dito’y gagamitin
Hindi dahil nais isip mo’y guluhin
Nang ito’y maarok puso ang gamitin

Damdaming dumaloy sa bawat taludtod
Ay laman ng pusong sa pantig tumibok
Kung isip ang gagamitin ‘di mo maaarok
Tanging sa puso damdami’y iindayog

Mata mo sana’y ipikit aking giliw
Sumayaw tayo sa kumpas ng aliw-iw
Sabihin man nilang ako’y isang baliw
Pag-ibig sa iyo’y hindi magmamaliw

Realities in the Workplace


The experience of Isaiah Thomas in the NBA, getting traded by his former team, the Boston Celtics, despite giving his all when he plays, despite playing for them in the playoffs a day after his beloved sister died tragically in a car accident, mirrors some of the painful realities in the workplace.

Isaiah Thomas learned the hard way that no one’s indispensable in an organization.

How valuable is Isaiah Thomas as a Celtic player? He led the team to the best record in the East during the 2016-2017 NBA season and brought the franchise all the way to the Eastern Conference finals. He was the team’s scoring and spiritual leader. But that did not prevent the Boston Celtics from letting go of him through the Kyrie Irving trade.

Should the Boston Celtics be faulted for doing what they did? Thomas should know that it’s nothing personal. It’s all business. The executives of the Celtic organization merely exercised their prerogatives. They did nothing illegal. They simply acted in what they think is in the best interest of the team.

That is one thing employees should bear in mind. There are times that employers have to do what they need to do in order for their business to prosper or simply survive. They need to implement changes and tweak policies at a certain point, sometimes at times when the employees least expected them. Notwithstanding  disagreements coming from “downstairs,” changes “people upstairs” want to make,  will be implemented.

When changes are implemented and policies tweaked, the employees should not take it personally. Changes in the workplace happen when they are due. It is something inevitable. They need to get used to it. Employees need to be ready to make decisions when they happen. There are available options that they are free to exercise.

Employees may simply embrace the changes and move on. They may decide to just accept organizational shake-ups, policy modifications, and what-have-you then continue working. It’s either they view the changes as necessary or accept the fact that they could simply do nothing to prevent them from happening.

Those who would consider that such changes are unacceptable… those who think that they are being taken out of their comfort zones… those who feel being taken advantage of… do have two possible courses of action. They can either resign and continue their quest to  find a perfect workplace or they will stay put and contest the legality of the changes that the employers made.

But locking horns with the bosses is a difficult struggle. Employers are always careful with decisions they make. Only the ignorant ones would risk getting hauled to court by effecting changes or making moves contrary to established laws and ordinances. Just like the Boston Celtics who certainly made sure that they have all legal loopholes covered before they finalized their agreement with the Cavs.

Most employers are wise.  One of the things an employer or businessman worth his salt does is study the laws and regulations that govern his business endeavors. It’s hard to catch them off-guard in legal matters. They simply know what buttons to push whenever “push comes to shove.”  In addition, they also consult lawyers to make sure that they face no legal impediments with anything that they do.

Employees who disagree with changes that those who employ them implement often fight a lonely battle which they are more likely to lose than win. They risk getting ostracized. If they decide to settle the matter of disagreement in the court of law, the employers are ready. With all their financial resources they are ready to fight  a long-drawn legal battle until the employee’s pocket and resolve run dry. There’s also a question of whether or not the majority (or even a few) of their co-workers share their sentiments. They cannot force anybody to join their cause, especially those who consider the changes made necessary and inevitable. They should not force anybody not willing to listen to their complaints about policies and personalities in their organization to give them time for their whinges and whines.

You simply cannot expect your colleagues to look at things and issues in the organization in the same way you do. You don’t share the same perspectives. Even your circumstances are different. People are also driven by sets of motivations that might be entirely different from yours. Learn to respect that.

Another thing that employees should always remember is that while they need to ensure that their rights as workers are protected, conversely, the employers will do everything to protect their own investments…to improve their business…or to keep their business afloat… even if it means firing their best employees. It’s nothing personal. It’s simply business.

And the lesson everybody should learn from the Isaiah Thomas’s experience in the NBA is that in an “employer-employee relationship,” business interests outweigh loyalty. Expect nothing from your employers beyond what is stipulated in your contract. They do the same.  The employees just need to work as best as they can. There are employers who know how to reward those who work hard. Employers also know how to deal with the perennial whingers and whiners.

Just love the work and enjoy the pay. Find a motivation that will keep you going in the workplace. If there’s none, not even the pay, then it’s time to pack up and find another workplace.

Here is the thing, if you think you can find a perfect workplace, you’ve got to be kidding.

The workplace is a jungle….and only the fittest survive. The workplace is not for the faint-hearted. Remember that!

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